Something That Gets Me...

My friends online list doesn't work! Whenever I want to send them a letter about like a sale or to join clubs I can't because it's all the people that don't care! (perezstargossip, Keira-V, and coco chanel!) And the list never changes! So the only way to send letters to people is to go to my friends page. Which is way harder! HELP! Do you have this prob?